The last few Months have been a terrible time for us all, living a nightmare that we have all struggled to come to terms with, but the one thing I can say is that Kathy would be so very proud of the way that everyone has been there for each other and pulled together, united in their support. It just goes to show that we all carry a little bit of Kathy inside ourselves; that deeply entrenched natural instinct to care for one another. So, if we are looking for positives to come out of something this painful, it is that new friendships will be formed her love will not be forgotten...and Kathy would just love that.Nothing was more important to Kathy than those close to her, so let's keep close to each other and do what she would wanted. Kathy is so alive in every single one of us and between us we have so many amazing memories to share, like when kathy would do diffrent things that did not turn out right she use to say Aud im one hot mess I loved that about Kathy we had many cups of coffee togeather and many many talks about her family she loved so much and most of God she had him in her Heart, and she is looking at us from above so let's just keep sharing Kathy's memories and enjoying them. She would want us to be happy. Laughter always got her through all her hard times and laughter will get us through ours. So I guess what I'm trying to say here is...and these are Kathy's words, not mine, "Don't forget to laugh and when you do laugh, don't feel guilty because you are supposed to be mourning for me, laugh because I am still here with you all, laugh because I can hear you."Your laughter and happiness is what keeps her alive and close to us, because it is the closest we can get to feeling her warmth.So carry on as Kathy would want you to, be strong, continue to make her proud...speak to her, speak about her, keep her close and in your heart. as John 14:27"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid." Rest in peace my dear sweet friend my bff. I loved you Kathy Audrey Hardy