John W. McMullan's Obituary
Obituary of John W. McMullan
John W. McMullan, 80, of Selbyville, Delaware and Salisbury, Connecticut, passed away in the loving care of his wife, Barbara, and Seasons Hospice at his Selbyville home on January 3, 2021. He fought a year-long battle with pancreatic cancer with integrity and grit. He was born on December 4, 1940 to the late Frank A. and Elizabeth McMullan in New Haven, Connecticut. John was a very unique and versatile man with many diverse accomplishments. He was a retired Spanish instructor at The Hotchkiss School in Lakeville, Ct. and Millbrook School in Millbrook, NY, and textbook author. John coached wrestling and field hockey at Hotchkiss. He served on the Board of Recording for the Blind and he worked in a leadership position for Educational Testing Service for the grading of the Spanish Advanced Placement Examinations. He loved 60's tunes and Doo-wop music. He also enjoyed fishing and travel. He was greatly influenced by his father who taught directing at the Yale School of Drama and developed his longtime passion for the Spanish language and culture when living with his family in Santiago, Chile where his father directed and taught theater. John was a demanding teacher and was considered a master teacher by his colleagues and students. Most recently in Delaware, John was involved with a men's singing group and a weekly writing group. His Delaware friends shared: "Our community is bereft of a man with dignity, humor and intelligence in a time when we need more like him rather than less."
John is survived by his wife and companion of 31 years, Barbara S. Gatski, and children: Elizabeth S. McMullan; Daniel F. McMullan and his wife Susan,; Jenna L. Gatski Einstein and her husband, Matthew T. Einstein, Megan L. Gatski, and her husband, Nathan S. Ivey and grandchildren: Arthur John (AJ) Conrad, Andrew Y. Ivey and Stella C. Ivey. Other family members are his brother David F. McMullan and wife Eileen Wheeler, of Cambridge, NY; and his nephews: Sean F. McMullan and wife Alice; Kirk W. McMullan; and Matthew Interis, and his wife Alba Collart. He also has four great nieces: Sarah E. McMullan, Kaelyn H. McMullan, Emily S. McMullan and Lillian P. McMullan.
John is also survived by his beloved, beautiful canine companion, Millie, who was at his side when he passed away, and is an important part of the family. Due to the coronavirus restrictions, a memorial service will be planned at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to Scholarship Assistance at Hamilton College; 198 College Hill Road; Clinton, NY 12223, which can also be found on-line at hamilton.edu/give Electronic condolences to:
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